1) Honor and validate one another when you communicate. 2) Yelling is not honoring. 3) Communication is not a battle to see who's right. 4) Executing verbal vengeance is not effective communication. 5) Listen with the intent to understand their view. 6) Even if you are 100% right in your point; make sure your 100% right in your attitude. 7) Always allow Jesus to change your heart before you try to change theirs. 8) Always seek to understand before seeking to be understood. 9) Practice a one-flesh mindset - whatever falls on you falls on me. 10) Remember you have a common enemy and it’s not each other.